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Your Girl Friend's Best Friend

November 5th 2006 20:15

taa-daa!

The most problematic relationship is between a boy and his girl-friend's best friend. First of all, if the girl's best friend is a male, forget about the "best friend" part. It's the biggest lie on planet. The only time a girl and a boy are best friends is when an elephant flies by using its ears. It's not best-friend but probably a sex-friend or at least, the sensual-friend.

So, we agree that your girl-friend's best friend is a female. Good. Now, you must know that you've got to balance your relationship with her so perfect that it must not be too much or too little. She must be your friend, but cannot be your best friend. You can talk to her about daily life, clothes, etc but not about sex and other forbidden stuff. You can comment on her clothes but not on her hips. On the other hand, she must be your friend. Because she's your girl-friend's best friend. That's the argument.

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I Love You, But...

October 27th 2006 06:53

...you are a moron.

There are many ways of expressing your love to your friends/lovers etc. You can say it directly, or your actions may speak for you. Your gift, or a letter may show your love. It's up to you. But the most common way is to tell. For this purpose, English language has a sentence which is quite plain and easy to pronounce:

"I love you."

As you can see, there is no "but" at the end of the sentence. Some people add a tiny word "but" at the end of this sentence. Like;

- I love you, but we can't be together
- I love you, but this is too much for me.

...

It ever goes on. The word "but," according to my dictionary is used for introducing something in contrast or unexpected. Let's take a closer look then. What's in contrast with love? Hate? Maybe but it'd be a bit harsh. Let's say the person setting up that sentence with the word but at the end of it is actually trying to tell that person that he/she is not in love with him/her. Because when you add anything more than a period, a but, it creates contradiction, and behind it, tells the very truth that he/she is not in love.

So, when someone says "I Love you but..." to you, only his/her mouth speaks of love. Focus on the part after the word "but", because the "I love you" thing is there just to soften the truth.

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The Thick Line Between Love & Date

October 18th 2006 14:33

Even if you are a pathetic loser, sooner or later you'll have a date. No matter how you look, what you like/dislike, who you are. Even I, a god damn nerd and/or geek, had some. This is the way of Mother Nature, you can't stand against it. But you must know that this is not the end, it's only the beginning.

So, you see the handsome guy/beautiful girl, (you notice her/his pysical appearance, and pyscial aesthetic qualities of him/her only, at first sight.) and ask for a date. This is the first, and probably the best (and only) step into a healthy realtionship. (lol!) You two, will go out, see a movie, have a dinner, have some chat and learn about each other.

If you are into a serious relationship, then you must know that Dating is not equal to Love. By and by, you'll know and love this person, not at first sight. Forget all of the fairy tales you hear or see on movies, it sounds nice but there is not such a thing as "love at first sight." It's the sexual desire, NOT love!

After your first date, you'll decide whether you'll have another date or not. And if you are lucky enough, you will!

PS: Planning to continue on why we fall in love with a little help from a German Philosopher called, Schopenhauer.

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